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🌧️ Aashada’s Shadows and Grace: A Tale of Sarees, Storms, and Survival

 

Aashada Masa—the fourth month of the Hindu lunar calendar—ushers in the monsoon, the festival season, and a wave of excitement across homes and markets. Saree sales bloom like rain-fed flowers, and families flock to shops with joy and anticipation. This year, our family too joined the celebration, unaware that beneath the surface of festivity, fate was quietly preparing a test of resilience.

🛍️ Sarees and Smiles

My younger sister and her family were among the first to embrace the season’s spirit. She picked three beautiful sarees, and my brother-in-law chose a new pair of jeans, a shirt, and a blazer. Their joy was contagious, and they encouraged me to send my own family to shop as well. It felt like a gentle beginning to the festive months ahead.

🏥 A Sudden Turn

Just days later, our mother was admitted to the hospital with gall bladder stones. My brother-in-law postponed his business trip to Davanagere to stay by her side—a gesture that spoke volumes of his character. After her recovery, he resumed his journey to Shimoga on 07.07.2025, dressed in his new clothes, hopeful and cheerful.

But on 08.07.2025, around 4:30 PM, tragedy struck.

🚗 The Collision

Near Anandapur, on a lake curve, a bus overtaking another vehicle collided head-on with his car. The impact was devastating. The driver’s side was crushed, and the car perched precariously on the lake’s barricade. One more inch, and it could have plunged into the waters below.


Thanks to the airbag—an invention we often overlook—his life was spared. But the real miracle was what followed.

💪 Courage in Chaos

Bleeding from the crown of his head, he held it tightly with one hand, steadying himself through the pain. His new shirt—once worn with joy—was soaked in red. The jeans he had chosen with such will and excitement just days earlier became impossible to bear. In a moment of raw necessity, he tore them off and threw them aside, choosing survival over sentiment.

He didn’t wait for help. He became his own help. He guided his colleague to call their family doctor, explained their location, and took advice. Then, he asked for a lift from a passerby and reached the nearest government hospital.

But bureaucracy greeted him before compassion—papers before treatment. Refusing to be delayed, he chose action over submission and reached MAAX Hospital, Shimoga by ambulance.

His courage, presence of mind, and perhaps divine grace turned a tragedy into a survival tale.

👨‍👩‍👧‍👦 Family in Tension

We received the news around 8:30 PM. My sister was shaken, and I tried to console her. His family friends and father were already at the hospital. Though they assured us it wasn’t serious, our hearts remained heavy until we saw him ourselves the next morning.

Six stitches on the crown, four on the knees, two on the hand, and a scar on his cheek—each mark a reminder of how close we came to losing him, and how lucky we are not to.

🌟 Threads of Will, Stitches of Grace

In the tearing of his jeans, there was more than fabric undone—it was the unraveling of pride, comfort, and expectation. What he had chosen with joy became a burden in crisis, and in letting go, he chose life. Holding his crown with one hand and courage with the other, he walked through pain not as a victim, but as a warrior of presence.

This moment reminds us:
🧵 What we hold dear may not always hold us up.
🩹 What we let go may be the very act that saves us.
🙏 And what we survive becomes stitched into our spirit as grace.

Aashada Masa brought sarees and celebration, but it also brought a lesson wrapped in blood and bravery—that life is fragile, but the human spirit, when guided by instinct and grace, is astonishingly strong.

💌 Dedication

To my brother-in-law
For walking through pain with presence, for choosing action over fear, and for showing us that courage isn’t loud—it’s quiet, bleeding, and determined.

To my sister
For holding strength in silence, for trusting grace in uncertainty, and for reminding us that love is the first medicine.

And to the unseen hands of fate
Whether we call it God, instinct, or divine timing—thank you for holding the wheel when it mattered most.

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